In the fast-paced world of leadership, it’s easy to rush through conversations. However, pausing before responding can be a powerful tool.
It allows you to gather your thoughts, consider your words carefully, and demonstrate thoughtful leadership.
And trust me, the pause feels longer to you than it will to others. Need proof? Record yourself and test out some pause lengths.
So, next time you’re in a conversation (especially if it’s a challenging one), try pausing before responding. You’ll be surprised at the impact it can have.
P.S. Pausing is also your friend when you’re speaking in meetings or to a crowd. It helps you catch your breath, keep a good pace, and when used strategically can let that brilliant point you just made resonate with the audience before you move on.
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Michael Piperno is a communication coach and executive presence expert. His insights empower leaders to communicate effectively and authentically.